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Mere dushman tu meri dosti ko tarse by Mohd. Rafi

Posted by JV on February 21, 2006

Movie : Aaye din bahar ke (1966)
Singer : Mohd. Rafi
Lyrics : Anand Bakshi
Music : Laxmikant Pyrelal

Song is meant for carrying the emotions of love and related things like separations etc. But I have never come across with any such piece of work which is full of curse. If you read each sher you will understand to intensity of hatred of the avower.

***

Mere dil se sitamgar tune achhi dillagi ki hai,
ke banke dost apne dostoson se dushmani ki hai.

Mere dushman tu meri dosti ko tarse,
muje gam denewale tu khushi ko tarse.

Tu phul bane patjad ka tuj pe bahar na aaye kabhi,
meri hi tu tadpe tujko karar na aaye kabhi.

Jiye tu is terh ke zindgi ko tarse.
mere dushman tu meri dosti ko tarse.

Itna to asar kar jaye meri wafaon o bewafa,
ek roz tuje yaad aye apni zaffanon o bewafa.

pashemaaon ke roye tun hansi ko tarse,
mere dushman tu meri dosti ko tarse.

Tere gulshan se jyada viran koi viranaa na ho,
is duniya me koi tera apna to ho kya begana na ho.

Kisi ka pyar kya tu berukhi ko tarse,
mere dushman tu meri dosti ko tarse.
***
मेरे दिल से सितमगर तुने अच्छी दिल्लगी कि है,
के बनके दोस्त अपने दोस्तोसों से दुश्मनी कि है.

मेरे दुश्मन तू मेरी दोस्ती को तरसे,
मुजे गम देनेवाले तू ख़ुशी को तरसे.

तू फूल बने पतझड का तुज पे बाहर न आये कभी,
मेरी ही तरह तुं तडपे तुज़को करार न आये कभी.

जिए तू इस तेरह के जिंदगी को तरसे.
मेरे दुश्मन तू मेरी दोस्ती को तरसे.

इतना तो असर कर जाये मेरी वफाओं ओ बेवफा,
एक रोज़ तुजे याद आये अपनी ज़फांअए ओ बेवफा.

पशेमाओं के रोये तुं हंसी को तरसे,
मेरे दुश्मन तू मेरी दोस्ती को तरसे.

तेरे गुलशन से जियादा विरान कोई विराना न हो,
इस दुनिया मी कोई तेरा अपना तो हो क्या बेगाना न हो.

किसी का प्यार क्या तू बेरुखी को तरसे,
मेरे दुश्मन तू मेरी दोस्ती को तरसे.
***

पशेमाओं/pashemaaon = repentant, ashamed. (Thanks, Dost)

28 Responses to “Mere dushman tu meri dosti ko tarse by Mohd. Rafi”

  1. Nidhi said

    I didnt like the Ghazal as much but esp this line “muje gam denewale tu khushi ko tarse” is too bad.

    We should never curse the one we love. Its not necessary that if I love some person then he also love me. I cannot even imagine of cursing my love, even if he dump me. I can say my choice was not right but cursing him that he never get happiness and love in life is something very bad.

    Take Care and Cheers
    Nidhi

  2. JV said

    We should never curse the people we dont love. We dont curse the people we love, we just throw a tantrum like small child, but never mean it.

    I was simply imprssed by the expressions expressed in this ghazal. Very imginative mind is reuiqred to express the hatred poetically.

  3. deepak said

    hi jv, thx for the comment on my blog. U r one of the very rare species who hv visited my blog :-) Well jus joking.. Anyways, seems u too fond of shayaris. Gr88.
    btw heres 1 blog i think u wud defintely love
    http://ghazallyric.wordpress.com/
    take care
    cya

  4. JV said

    Thanks for the reciprocating. Yes the ghazal-blog is greatly maintaied by Jaya, I have been to there, anyway thanks for the link keep them coming if you have any interesting link on anything you feel like sharing.

  5. Lakshmi said

    Hay Jaya, What happened to you, can’t we talk for few moments.

  6. JV said

    I am quite right. Yes we can talk , but about what?

  7. Hi,

    Just found this blog while searching for the Ghazal “Yeh To Nahin Ke Ghum Nahin”. Nice compilation !!!

    Let me tell you, This one, particularly, is not a Ghazal. !!!

    Kalpesh.

  8. JV said

    Yes, you are right.

  9. Yep, not a Ghazal. Kafiya, Radeef and other technicalities are missing. A very well written Geet though (or Nazm you may call it).

  10. Dost said

    Mera dost mujhe chahta tha, phir bhi usne mujhse bewafai ki. Kyonki woh samaj se darata tha. Maine bahut kam manga that aur woh samaj se thodi si bagawat kar ke meri dosti ka maan rakh sakta that.

    Par usne nahin kiya, aur mujhse dosti bhi rakhna chahta tha.

    In such a situation why wouldn’t your curse him?

  11. JV said

    People curse when they lose their temper and not able decide what is wrong and what is right. However, when they return to the senses they realise the unneeded curses.

    Wait for some time, let some water flow, dont start cursing , be positive and try to understand the situation in your friend is.

    Best of luck and happy new year to you, dost.

  12. Dost said

    Difficult to follow but thanks.

    You need to do a correction in the wordings:

    Pashe maan ho ke roye tu hansi ko tarse!

    A very happy new year to you!

  13. JV said

    Yes, it is always easy advise someone. But I thought that could solace you.

    Thanks for the suggestion, but what does “pashe maan” mean?

  14. Dost said

    Kind words are always a big solace.

    I don’t know the meaning of Pashe maan, it is an Urdu word. I think it is something like “Badhawaas”.

  15. JV said

    Thanks for the visit.

    I found the meaning , “pashemaan” would mean repentant, ashamed.

    Thanks again.

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  17. JV said

    I am not sure, how to react to your statement :) But that is the way I am.

  18. Brahmdev said

    I don’t want to sound pontific, but naftrat and bad-dua are certainly not answers to disillusionments in love.

    If you start hating and cursing someone whom you profess you loved, chances are that a self-examination will reveal that you never loved the person deeply enough in the first place. Your love was superficial.

    And whatever, the situation and the circumstances, hatred and cursing is not the answer. My mind goes to another favorite song:

    “Kabhi hoti nahin hai jiski haar woh hai pyaar, woh toh hai pyaar.
    ….
    Naftrat se bhi tum mohabbat karo, pahla sabak humne tumse sikha.
    …..”

    Deep, intense, true love can turn around the hatred in your greatest foe, as is substantiated by the history of Vashishtha and Vishwamitra.

    All these things apart, like JV I am also “impressed by the expressions expressed in this ghazal. Very imginative mind is required to express the hatred poetically.” Not only that, the tune composed by Laxmi Pyare is very appealing and captivating, and one feels like listening again and again to the song, though one might not agree withh all the burden of the song !!!

  19. JV said

    Thanks Brhamdev for the lively participation.

  20. someone said

    This song speaks to me…My heart is broken…why? I found out what my lover turned out to be. It’s shocking.
    When you really love someone and you feel like you’re hurted by them why not say about the reckless feeling? When you love someone so much and you felt like it was meaningless why not express it? The one I love was a friend… But what had happend, is speechless. what am I suppose to do at this point? I was trimbling when I found out about my love. My love turns out to be nothing but a fool. I felt like my lover is selfish, conceited and harsh. I really hate him…I loved him for almost a year! Love hurts. When you really are in love, and when you’re in pain you can’t control it. Sometimes you can’t do the things that you use to do, because of this terrible depression… SOMETIMES I JUST WISH I never met him…

  21. JV said

    When someone tells me that , when it hurt it is painful. I do not know how to solace such person , and you too.

    But I know one thing if your hear is feeling pain , then you are really living. I haven’t enjoyed the movie ‘Dil Se’, exception for a piece from one song ‘dil hai to dard hoga, dard hai to dil hoga’, for which I hear the song again and again.

    If you are hurt, you are bleeding, then it is good sign, you are not dead yet , there is chance of blooming.

    You wish that you never met him…. I say that you must bless him, thank him , for opening your heart.

    …..

  22. azir said

    i dont thnk so, when you love some one soo much save some one so much, forgiving mistake over mistake, cry over and over, as a result you give up all you have, for this person, and this person, never realize, in front of her eyes, you get health problem, becus of her, you cry everyday for her, you will say this. to wake some on up.

  23. dkeagle said

    I think it isn’t a good to curse them whom we loved. but situation takes that effect

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  25. nitin said

    this song is demn heart touching ……
    all insanes must appreciate this song …but i m not one of themmmm remind uuuuuuuuu

  26. chetan said

    yaar ye song mere dil ko chu jata hai or mujhe usi dunia me le jata hai jisse me lakhho meel dur khada hu aaj par sayad dil wahi hai …….

  27. shahnaaz said

    Best song. great singer , mohd rafi.

  28. Becham said

    На таких громких заголовках и подобной шумихе можно делать и не такие успехи :)

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